Finally, Specialized Recovery for Separation Anxiety
Self-Guided Recovery for Separation Anxiety
A structured, evidence-based program to help you overcome separation anxiety at your own pace
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Hear from people we've helped with separation anxiety
"Bia changed my life. It gives you small steps to take every day and tracks your progress. I'm not done, but I already feel so much better and am doing so much more."
"I can tell this was built my someone who had phobia. They get it. The app lets you customize and take a little placement quiz. You can pause or exit whenever and it's very careful and explains every step. Thank you for making this"
"In short, this site is brilliant. The best help you will ever get apart from an in-person specialist, bar none."
"I feel extremely optimistic using this app and have already changed the way I think and feel more confident in stressful situations as I know what to do . It's also great that your mental health professionals can connect to your account and also have tools provided to them to help them help us."
"It starts with theory foundations and basic exposures and works you up an exposure hierarchy, helping you acclimate and build confidence."
"I love how the exposures are slow and very incremental. It's felt like what I imagine exposure therapy with a therapist would be like! The check ins are helpful and they really help me keep an eye on my anxiety levels while working on the exposures. I also appreciate the reminders to slow down! I'm only on chapter 3 but I'm feeling very optimistic"
Separation anxiety is distress when separated from a primary caregiver: refusing to sleep alone, refusing school drop-off, refusing playdates, refusing the babysitter. Some level is developmentally normal in young children; clinical separation anxiety is intense enough to disrupt school, sleep, or family functioning, often with somatic complaints and fears that harm will come to the caregiver. The clinical fix is graduated separation exposure with predictable, brief, non-dramatic goodbyes, building tolerance to short separations before longer ones. Bia structures the ladder, coaches the parent through the don't-rescue moments, and tracks progress nightly.
Common signs of separation anxiety
- Distress at separation: crying, clinging, somatic complaints
- Refusal to sleep alone, in own bed, or at sleepovers
- School refusal driven by separation
- Frequent calls or check-ins when separated
- Fear of harm coming to the caregiver
- Nightmares about separation
Our clinical approach: graduated separation exposure with caregiver coaching
Real results for people with Separation Anxiety
Most families see tolerated separation duration meaningfully increase within 3 to 6 weeks of consistent structured practice.
Two paths to recovery from Separation Anxiety
Self-Guided
Recovery at your own pace, anytime
- Step-by-step guided recovery for Separation Anxiety
- Evidence-based lessons & exercises
- Practice anytime on web, iOS & Android
- Track your anxiety and progress over time
- Adults & children versions
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With a Therapist
Guided by a specialist, covered by many insurance plans
- Everything in Self-Guided, plus:
- Live video sessions with a phobia specialist
- Message your therapist anytime between sessions
- 10 weeks of Bia app access included
- Covered by most major insurance plans
Everything you need to overcome Separation Anxiety
Self-Guided Recovery
Your complete program for Separation Anxiety
- Step-by-step exposure program for Separation Anxiety
- Evidence-based lessons & exercises
- Practice anytime on web, iOS & Android
- Track your anxiety and progress over time
- Adults & children versions
Already working with a therapist?
Bia works perfectly alongside your existing therapy. Use it between sessions to practise exposures and reinforce what you're learning.
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For Individuals with Separation Anxiety
A personalized, self-paced program to help you reclaim the life you deserve. Work through structured lessons, exercises, and activities at your own pace.
Start your programFor Parents Supporting a Child
Bia's kids program uses age-appropriate exercises and engaging characters to help children face fears with parent lessons and support at every step.
Learn about Bia for kidsFor Clinicians Using Bia With Patients
Assign exposure, track patient progress, and access curated hierarchies for your clients through the provider portal.
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Bia is built in collaboration with leading academic researchers and found at national clinical conferences.
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I Believe You Can Recover
Hello, my name is Willy, founder of Bia. I suffered from emetophobia for most of my life and know first hand the misery and loneliness it can cause. During my recovery I built a tool to track my progress and help me practice. Over four years this tool transformed into Bia, now used by people around the world. I'm happy to share I have recovered from phobia and I believe you can too.
Separation anxiety in a child is exhausting for the whole family. The fix is counterintuitive (shorter, calmer goodbyes) and the structure is what makes it sustainable. Bia gives you the structure.
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From Bia User to Co-Founder
My name is Elizabeth, and I am Co-Founder of Bia. I came across an early version of Bia while working through my own phobia recovery and became one of its first users. I was already seeing a therapist, but once I added daily guided-exposure practice with Bia the impact on my recovery was immediate. I've since partnered with Willy to leverage my health-care background to build and expand Bia, and it's been incredibly meaningful to see the tool help others just as it helped me.
Frequently asked questions about separation anxiety
Is this normal for a young child?
Some separation distress is normal up to age 4 or 5. Persistent or intense separation anxiety past that, or new-onset separation anxiety in older kids, is clinically meaningful.
Won't long goodbyes help my child feel safe?
Counterintuitively, the opposite. Long, dramatic goodbyes train the brain that separation is dangerous. Brief, calm, predictable goodbyes work better. Bia teaches the script.
What if my child has both separation anxiety and school phobia?
Common. Bia handles both: the separation work is the foundation, the school work builds on top.
Is it possible to overcome separation anxiety?
Yes. Research shows, recovery from phobia is possible. You don't have to settle for life with phobia.
What does it mean to overcome a phobia?
Imagine a life where phobia does not influence your decisions. Where you can go where you want, eat what you want, and do what you want without anxiety, or fear.
Can I use Bia by myself?
Yes. Bia is designed to work as a self-guided tool. It provides a personalized recovery plan, interactive lessons, and step-by-step guided exercises for practicing evidence-based recovery techniques.
Can I use Bia with a therapist?
Yes. Bia works great along side therapy. Your therapist can use our provider portal to personalize your recovery plan, assign custom exercises, and monitor your progress.
We can help you connect with a therapist near you. Get Connected
I am nervous to try it.
We built Bia to lower the barrier to the path of recovery. Bia never tricks, traps, or forces you in any way. The journey is built of small, incremental steps. You control the pace and order of your journey.
How long does it take?
Individual sessions on Bia are short and take 5 to 15 minutes. Bia builds a personalized step-by-step journey based on your unique needs, so completing the full journey is different for everyone. Typically, a journey includes over 55 exercises and 19 lessons across 9 milestones.
How much does it cost?
Bia is free to try. A subscription is required to unlock your full journey. If you are using Bia with a therapist, you may be eligible to receive Bia for free as part of your treatment. Ask your therapist today.
If you have an HSA/FSA plan, you can use it to purchase Bia by first receiving a letter of medical necessity from our partner, Flex. Use HSA/FSA
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